What happened when a boy doesn't love the girl who loves him so much?
I don't know why I blog this but have you been wondering for the answer what will happen when a boy doesn't love a girl who loves him so much.
Ting ting... first of all for the girl out there... WAKE UP.... if a the boy/man don't love you... don't waste your time on him...
How can you realize that you are one of the girl who love the guy more than he love you?
Scenario 1: There are time that you have noticed him when you are standing and talking with a friend and you will always think that he noticed you... actually is not as this is just your imagination of yourself. The fact is you he looked at you at about the same time you saw him and your eyes met just for a few seconds only and then you looked away. Then, when you looked back up, he is talking with someone. In you mind, you must be thiking, is he watching you as you mingled? or just the destiny that both your eyes met for that few second.
Scenario 2: Love is blind. Always never think of any other things of yourself only him. When a guy treat you good then you will tend to think he have the feeling for you. Actually not... it could be either he want to have sex (one night stand) or just play around with you when he feel bored or alone. He don't called you that often, always tell you he want to concentrate on his career or studies, unwilling to disclose to friend & families on your relationship with him, always find some topic to chat with him unfortunately he is actually not interested...
scenario 3: Try to get his attention by doing something or talking to someone who is standing / sitting near to him. Always be the 1st one to sitting near him. More caring to him by voluntery yourself to do anything for him without him requesting for anyone to do.
Scenario 4: always pretend to be busy with your own stuffs or acting as natural as you can but eventually you keep your earings listening to what he is talking to someone else. When the timing and topic is right, you can add in your own comments with him
Scenario 5 : Always like to fight with him coz you will always have the feeling of understanding his needs more.
Scenario 6: Pretend to be friend with his girlfriend/wife so that you can know better his personal life style at home which you don't have a chance right by his side all the time.
Scenario 7: Always show off you capability in your work so that you will catch him attention on you by setting you a good example to others.
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested?
1. He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look he gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation.. Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly... He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you... Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly.
So for those girls who have not wake up... It is silly to wait for a guy to love you back when your love to him more. Please always don't think that 'I'm just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love me'...
You'll never understand why I hurt so much,
I started off my blog today with my very first trip to Bangkok Trip from 25th - 30th March 2010... Yup...yup... doing the red shirt protest time.... working trip.
This is my 5th year celebrating as a mother in mother's day... Lovely girl that I have with her cheeky smile that substitute with all the yelling, scolding, angry towards her sometimes naughtiness and stubborn. But we do have hidden fun when we are together. 
